Do you agree with all the rules?

personally I hate to see anyone killed or mistreated I dont think your rules are right...but when ppl think that killing themselves and others will bring them to heaven with virgins what can you do? I only sympathize with this how can you know when they will strap a bomb to a child or woman as they do. Of course I am not saying all arab ppl do this I love arab ppl but the crazy ones who do is the problem this is the reason things are so hard now because of these crazy ppl who use islam for killing these are the ppl who make any muslims life hard.